The Usual Questions

Familiarity breeds, what, boredom...comfort...um, brain death? It must. How else to explain the group behavior I saw today (and everyday) while riding the ferry home from work today? As I've mentioned before, I live on a small island in the Pacific North West. It's a pain in the ass, it's inconvenient, it's dark all winter, it can be claustrophobic and can be oppressive when the clouds pile up in November (and stay until June!) from their rain gathering campaign across the North Pacific ocean. Pile up like a traffic accident. Cloud after cloud speeding through the air, crashing into one another and crying constantly at the loss of blue sky and light. The carnage continues until there are no more clouds to be seen but only a flat gray cloak of a sky with no definition and no hope of ever going away. Only a cloying blanket of dim moisture hanging above and weeping.
(OK, today is actually stunningly beautiful without a cloud in the sky. Hoar frost clings to the shadows on the ground and the water we are sliding through looks like the window pane of an old Victorian bay window. Not a perfect invisible reflection but textured just enough to be pleasantly interesting.) I couldn't actually write about the flat dull gray skies while they occur because it pushes me a little too close to the "What's the point of it all" side of the BIG QUESTION. The other end of that scale, and the one I am pondering today is, "Oh my God, how can this planet be so perfect and integrated and so damn beautiful?" It's not that I've begun a prescription of antidepressants this week...it's just that the sun is out and the sky is that perfect cold winter blue with no brown haze of summer. How can that not make the funk in my head go away? You know, the moss that builds up under one's eyelids like plaque or the lichen that grows in the sulci (google it) of my cerebrum. Which brings me once again back to where I started (in my own twisted head anyway)...familiarity.
It is a mind killer. As the Washington State Ferries ply these waterways they pass pristine islands. Trees carpet them fighting for light and space all the way down to the rocky shoreline. Not like the planned forests of recently logged tree farms to the east...like bad hair plugs on a bald mountainside. These are rascally and diverse and dense. I just saw a bald eagle sitting on a rock next to a buoy eyeing the kelp-draped low tide outcropping. Seals and river otters swim through the dark green waters. It is an amazing part of this planet to be able to call home (yes, even on a rainy day). But I wouldn't have noticed any of it had it not been for the ferry captain. He or she must have been bored enough to try an alternate route today. Normally the ferries stay on a fixed route. And even though beautiful, the same sights seen too often can become routine. Even when I consciously look for the more subtle details, familiarity kicks in and I end up reading a book as magic floats by just outside the salt sprayed window. Today, instead of passing by the south side of Blakely Island we slid through Peavine pass to the north. Books all around the ferry were put aside and the people were up and about quietly staring at a rarely seen part of our own county. Snags overhanging a low cliff ready to fall to a watery grave...a bright green meadow leaning at an impossible angle...a steep mountainside packed with fir and cedar trees. We were mesmerized as it slid slowly east. It's not as if it were that different from the south side of the island but it was just the fact that it was different at all. As soon as we passed through the narrow channel the sights were once again familiar. The looks of interest and appreciation were soon enough gone as books and magazines were once again raised and we all went back to wherever it is we go that is not here...right here. Now, I'm not preaching...or if I am it is only to myself and have dragged you along for the sermon. But how do we stay awake and alive to all the amazement that is always right in front of our freaking noses? The smooth cool feeling of the keyboards under my fingers right now...the beauty of all the love that is given and received constantly...the pain and suffering that surrounds everything there is...the power of our kids asking us a question and trusting our answers...our spouses constancy/sexuality/support...the taste of a carrot pulled from our garden...or even the fact that it will grow at all! My friend Margaret likes to quote the Bob Dylan line "Those who are not busy being born are busy dying". It's a good line...makes me wonder how much of my life I spend dead. But that's a rabbit hole I'd like to avoid going down today...it's too beautiful outside.
CONGRATULATIONS TO BARACK OBAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!